Transcribed
by
his son,
Ray Clement Lowe
from an Audio tape to his niece, Lois Jean, in 1992

I'd like to say a few words about my Dad too. Hope you don't mind.
One of
the earliest remembrances I can - that made me really start noticing
my Dad more was - I must have been about 6-7 years old. (Couldn't
have been much more because I started thinning beets and earning my
own money when I was 9.) But anyway, it was 4th of July and I was
sitting under a big pear tree we had at the South
side of the lawn that run from the west side of our house clear down
to the street. I was sitting there - I don't know if I was crying or
just pouting, but it was the 4th of July and I didn't have any money
to spend so I didn't go to town to have fun with the rest of the
kids. Dad came up to me and he said "Ray, I'm awfully sorry
but here's all the money I've been able to rake up and I really
tried to get more." He said, " I want you to take it and go down
town and enjoy yourself as much as you can." And he handed me 4
dimes. I tried not to take it but he insisted that I take it and he
had tears in his eyes and his voice was cracked. He sez, "Please! I
want you to take it." He sez. " I want you to enjoy the 4th of July
as much as possible ." He sez, "If I can rake up any more ,I'll give
it to ya later ,but this is all I've been able to get" So, I took
the money and at that time 4 dimes was quite a bit. You could buy a
package of 50 of those little miniature fire crackers for , I don't
know , 5 or 10 cents. You could get a double deck ice cream cone for
a nickel, hot dog for ,I think it was a nickel, 10 cents to go to
the matinee. So it was equal to several dollars now a days.
And I
think all my brothers and sisters (unless it got down to Paul and
Lela, )thought Dad was awfully mean---beat on 'em too much, but he
never used anything but little green willow switches that would
sting real bad. Never caused 'em to have any bad bruises or broken
bones or anything like that and, after that deal on the 4th of July,
I guess I paid a little more attention and I think,
anytime that I ever saw him punish me or one of the other kids we
really deserved it. The
idea in those days was spare the rod and spoil the child. I think if
I had of tried to raise as many kids as he did and trying to earn a
living the way he had to do it I'd probably have been meaner than he
was. In those days they didn't have radio and television with all
the child experts and psychologists and family counseling programs
and all that kind of stuff so what they had to do was just do the
best they could with what they knew.
Dad
was considered a pretty good carpenter. I guess he just learned that
by doing, and I know that he built two-three houses, did a lot of
repairing, remodeling, addition work like that. And he also did a
lot of cement concrete work. In the winter time he would butcher
animals, pigs, calves like that for people who couldn't do or didn't
want to do it for themselves. I know he always butchered for uncle
George Dallin.

I
don't think he charged uncle George because we always got our straw
for our ticks (we called it our mattresses) on our beds from uncle
George’s hay field. We always gethered grained wheat from there to
feed the chickens and the pigs so fer that reason I don't think he
charged uncle George, but he did charge some of the other people. He
also would pull teeth and cut hair for people who'd come around and
ask him to once in awhile. I don't believe he ever charged for that
except one time a guy by the name of Lou Whitney that lived about
half way between our place and the 2nd ward church. He was Forman on
a road job down in southern Utah and he was quite a religious man.
He always came home to go to church on Sundays, but this one time he
didn't get home in time to get in the barber shop to get a haircut.
So he came out to our place and
had
Dad cut his hair. When Dad got through, Lou handed him 50 cents. Dad
didn't want to take it. Lou said, "Go ahead and take it. It’s just
as good a haircut as I would a' got down town and it itches twice as
much."
I
remember when the kids was real small, Ada, Rose, Paul and Lela, in
the winter time cold weather, Dad would even let us play hide-n-seek
in the house and I have even seen Ada and Rose jump the rope in the
house.
One of
the things we used to do was to get in the doorway, mostly John and
myself, some of our friends would come over. We'd get in to one of
the doorways that go into one of the west rooms, have the door open.
We'd
put our left hand and left foot on one side of the doorway and the
right hand and right foot on the other side of the doorway, try to
work our way up ‘til our head touched the top of the doorway.
Another way we'd do it was put both feet on one side, sit down on
the floor, put both feet on one side of the door frame ,our back on
the other side, hold with our hands and try to work ourselves up by
moving our feet a little then our back ,then our feet, 'til we could
touch our head to the top.
And we
would sometimes take the old kitchen chairs. We would sit in the
chair then lean over sideways. We could touch our hands to the rungs
that went between the legs of the chairs use the back of the chair
to hang on to, try to crawl around the back of the chair make a
complete circle around the back of the chair and back on to the
chair without touching the floor with any part of our body (our hand
or anything). He would tolerate things like that and he would let us
stand by the door frames and make marks on it to see how tall we
were and come back later and see how much we'd grown and make
another mark. Dad was very generous. I've seen many a time when Bums
as we would refer to them came around wanting something to eat
wanting a hand out. Dad and Mother always gave them something to
eat, usually pack a lunch for them or something like that.

I
remember one time a covered wagon came onto the Jefferson school
ground. They stayed there 2-3 days I think. It was, I remember, a
man his wife and a little girl that was about my age. I remember
thinkin’ she
was
kind a cute. We were pretty small at the time and evidently they had
been there before because Dad seemed to know them. They seemed to
know Dad. But they stayed there 2-3days and Dad gave them lots of
fruit and vegetables and I'm quite sure Mother baked a cake and some
bread for them.
And
another time some Indians came there. There was an old Indian Chief
that had his head dress there ,with all the feathers, and his squaw.
Then there were two younger ones that were adults. I don't know if
they were son and daughter or son and his wife or something like
that and there was a couple of little kids. And Dad fixed them up
some fruit. And we had a big pear tree down on the lawn (that was
the same on that I was sitting under when Dad gave me the 4 dimes.)
It was a huge tree and the pears had on, even when they got ripe,
they were real hard. The Indians saw these pears. The old Indian
picked one up that looked ripe and he bit into it and he says , "Mmm,
good! Hard like bullet!" We didn't know the name of the pears ,but
after that we always called them Bullet pears,There was an old tom
cat hangin’ around there . I don't think we even claimed it as our
cat,
but
this Indian Chief asked if he could have the cat . Dad said, "
Sure!" He gave him the cat.
When
they left, they started up east. Whitey Grosbeck was there with me.
They went up to the west
end of
what we call the hollow (the dump part of the hollow), that lane
that runs from 7th
south
, east of Dad and Mother's place where Penny and Vie lived.
Grosbecks used to live right there
where
Penny and Vies house was and on the east side of their lot was a
little lane that run south back
into
the other properties ,but the more east to 2nd east, the road was
just a narrow dirt rode on the
south
side of 7th south there. The north side was part of the old creek
bed. We called it The
Hollow. People had been dumping rubbish in there that they didn't
want ,old furniture and metal
stuff
they didn't want, and these Indians stopped right at the west end of
this hollow. Whitey
Grosbeck and I, out of curiosity ,went up to see what they were
doing. They built a little fire, put up
a
tri-pod with some sticks on two sides of the fire, hit this cat's
head on a rock, killed it, rammed a
big
green stick through it without even takin' the hair off or the
insides out or anything. They
rotated it over this fire 'til they cooked it and started to eat it
and about made Whitey and I sick. We
got
out of there in a hurry.
One
time, I think it was late spring or early summer, I remember the
weather was nice we were sitting down to dinner. There was oh 8, 9,
or10 of us at the big table in the kitchen. Had the door open on the
south ,the door open on the north. I don't think there was any fire
on the kitchen range that big stove that was 5 or 6 feet away from
the kitchen table. A guy showed up. He'd come from the State Mental
Hospital in Provo,( away up the east side of Provo against the
foothills there. At that time there was not too many houses or farms
between Springville and Provo). I think he walked around the base of
the hill 'til he got to Springville. Any way he came over to our
place. Dad knew him. Evidently people had been cautioned not to feed
people like that that came from the State Mental Hospital because
they might
make a
nuisance of themselves. He seemed to know Dad. He came in ,standing
with his back to the stove, kind a leaning up with his hips to the
stove while we were eating and he sez, "Say , Billy I saw the
strangest thing on the way over here today, that I've ever seen. "
Dad sez, " What was that? " He said , "I saw a cow with 5 calves."
Dad sez, " Gee, that would be unusual! What were they doin?" The guy
sez, "Well , four of the calves were nursing. " Dad sez, What was
the 5th one doing?" He said, He was standing out at the side lookin’
on like I'm doin’."

Sons of William Nephi Lowe Taken about 1951
Front: Orval “Billy” and
Ray
Left side:
John
Right side: Paul
Back: Earl, Elden “Buck”, Glen “Penny”
We
didn't go visit our relatives very much when I was kid. I guess its
because we always had too much to do at home, but we used to have a
lot of relatives come to visit us . Relatives from Monroe and
Richfield, Salina,Mammoth ,Silver City and where ever they happened
to live. Seemed like they would always come in the summer or fall
and sometimes there'd be 5 or 6 of 'em in a group. Many times, 2 or
3 maybe 4 of us kids sleeping in the kitchen on the floor. Seemed
that almost every time some of our relatives would come,; my aunts,
uncles, some of the older cousins; they would come to get a bunch of
vegetables or fruit (wasn't so plentiful up in their area , Mammoth
or Silver City or down in Monroeor Richfield), so they come to
Springville to get a lot of fruits or vegetables.They didn't take it
back home fresh. They always bottled it at our place. Sometimes
they'd stay there 3 or 4 days just bottling fruit and vegetables.
During
the 1st World War ,there was a flu epidemic hit the whole country.
It hit Springville
pretty
hard too. I don't know, but I think it must have been 30 or 40
people died there in Springville from it. The biggest part of the
people came down with it. Buck was in Florida in the army, but I
think most of the rest of our family was at home. Everyone of our
family was sick in bed except Dad. He took care of the whole bunch;
fixed our food for us, gave us our medication ,clean our clothes and
bedding and everything. We were all in bed for, I guess at least a
week maybe more, and none of us (unless it was Mother) had ever seen
Dad without his mustache. He shaved his mustache off just about the
time we were all getting out of bed and almost gave us all a relapse
we laughed so much because he looked so funny to us. That was the
only time we him without his mustache.
I don't think Dad asked any of us to pay room and board when we were
working and earning money. What ever we earned was ours to do with
as we pleased. But I know he always appreciated it if we'd buy food
and something the family needed. When Buck got married, I'm quite
sure Dad gave him that corner lot (the southwest corner where Ray
lives now. Ray and Jerrie) and helped him build his house and I
think he gave the North side to Billy and helped him with his house.
Later Billy traded his to Groesbecks (who lived East of us ) took
their lot up there. I doubt if Dad got any money out of that. I
don't know. I don't think so. Anyway Penny built his house (took the
old Grosbeck house), remodeled it, lived there. Then Squirley put a
shack there in the
corner, fixed up. And then Billy built one just south of Squirley’s
in the southwest corner of the old Groesbeck place. And I never did
hear of em ever paying Dad any money for any of those lots or
helping them. But I know he helped 'em a lot in getting their homes
ready. Dad and Mother made 2 or 3 quite lengthy visits with us here
in Sacramento. I don't ever remember Dad being grouchy or irritable.
He always seemed to really enjoy himself down here. He loved to play
horseshoes. So Paul and I got some regulation horseshoes, stakes and
set em up. We used to pitch horseshoe with Dad a quite a bit. He was
a little better than either Paul or I and he sure
loved
to play the game. The first time I noticed anything unusual about
Dad was the last trip he was down here. After they'd been here a
long time we had all doors (nearly all doors) in homes have a strip
running up one
side
across the top and down the other, of a small board that the door
fits against when the door is closed. We had one that was
particularly bad about you could take a-hold of the doorknob a
certain way and when you'd close the door the back of your hand
would hit this board. It happened to Dad one time. He just went and
got a saw and cut about a 6 inch piece out of that board even with
the doorknob. I knew that was real odd for him to do something like
that. I began a worrying about him and a few days later he
disappeared one day and we couldn't find him and we hunted all over.
We called the cops and got the cops looking for him. They finally
found
him brought him home he was gone all day ‘til late in the evening.
We found out a little later that he'd been to some of the big
department stores downtown(I think Hales and Bruners ,Sears ,2 or 3
different ones),trying to buy gifts for all of us for quite
expensive gifts and put 'em on charge account. Course we had to
cancel all of those and after that we got him back to Utah as quick
as we could.That was the last time I ever saw my Dad.
I
think I had a real good Dad, a wonderful Mother, a lot of very good
brothers and sisters, nephews ,nieces, relatives. I think I've been
pretty lucky to have been part of such a good family tree and I want
you to know that I still love you and I hope this will compensate at
least a little bit for all those letters I didn't write in answer to
your volumes that you wrote to me. I hope to see you at the next
family reunion or possibly sooner. If I can possibly make it in the
Springtime I'll do it.